I'm not sure why, but I have been the trigger person for most of my career.  The gunslinger brought in to say, No.  Human Resource professionals are frequently referred to as The Fashion Police (that skirt is too short), The Personal Hygiene Moderator (deodorant is a necessity), Policy Patrol (insubordination IS grounds for termination) and, worst of all, the b-word.  So why can't everyone else draw a line in the sand?

I'm not sure why, but I have been the trigger person for most of my career. The gunslinger brought in to say, No. Human Resource professionals are frequently referred to as The Fashion Police (that skirt is too short), The Personal Hygiene Moderator (deodorant is a necessity), Policy Patrol (insubordination IS grounds for termination) and, worst of all, the b-word. So why can't everyone else draw a line in the sand?

15 TED Talks That Will Change your Life -- Feel like getting inspired, motivated or just looking for a feel-good cry? Look no further. - via Mashable

15 TED Talks That Will Change your Life -- Feel like getting inspired, motivated or just looking for a feel-good cry? Look no further. - via Mashable

I usually dislike pieces like this, but this one is good.  //  How I (Kind of) Figured Out My Twenties by Shelby Chapman

I usually dislike pieces like this, but this one is good. // How I (Kind of) Figured Out My Twenties by Shelby Chapman

Resentment. Letting go the poison from within.  Looking back I wonder why I have devoted so much time and contemplation to resentment.  I’ve never really worried about “letting it go”.  I hold onto it for years, decades, dragging it around like a childhood stuffed bear.  I can’t imagine how much energy I would have if I could be refunded all the time I spend on resentment.  Carrie Fisher said it best “Resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die.”

Resentment. Letting go the poison from within. Looking back I wonder why I have devoted so much time and contemplation to resentment. I’ve never really worried about “letting it go”. I hold onto it for years, decades, dragging it around like a childhood stuffed bear. I can’t imagine how much energy I would have if I could be refunded all the time I spend on resentment. Carrie Fisher said it best “Resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die.”

If we don't want throwaway answers, we can't ask throwaway questions. A caring question is a key that will unlock a room inside the person you love.

If we don't want throwaway answers, we can't ask throwaway questions. A caring question is a key that will unlock a room inside the person you love.

One Year Savings Schedule - in addition to the House savings, I'll be doing this for furniture and upgrades I want to do :)

One Year Savings Schedule - in addition to the House savings, I'll be doing this for furniture and upgrades I want to do :)

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