Drawing on the Laws of Attraction by focusing on being the MOST positive person that I know. Laying down the gauntlet! Being positive, seeing positively, searching for the bright side - it sure does attract the good stuff.
Listen earnestly to anything your children want to tell you, no matter what. If you don't listen eagerly to the "little stuff" when they are little, they won't tell you the big stuff when they are big; because to them, all of it has always been big stuff.
A Negative Mind Will Never Give You A Positive Life