I am an everyday feminist because I have been sucking my stomach in for so long that just "letting it all hang out" feels more abnormal than constantly pulling in my stomach. I don't want to always compare myself to others! I want to BE ENOUGH even when society says I need to look like this to be beautiful.
The 'ending' gender roles I don't like, because most kids and adults fit well in their gender roles and we can mske room for the outliers. But if you wont be happy untill gender roles are ended you will never be happy.