Gandhi's Top 10 Fundamentals: 1. Change yourself 2. You are in control 3. Forgive and let go 4. Take care of this moment 5. Without action, you aren't going anywhere 6. Everyone is human 7. See the good in people and help them 8. Persist 9. Be congruent, be authentic, be your true self 10. Continue to grow and evolve.
Life is just to short to spend one minute of it in any of these situations! I prefer being with the ones I love, who love me and bring joy to my life and want the best for me as I do them and who bring positive energy into my life as I try to do for them!