The one that you could never love as you should - or as they loved you. Everybody loves differently. Do not beat yourself up because you did not love them as much as they loved you. That was all you could do for that matter.
My new years reso, to be myself everywhere I go. not just with fam and close friends. But with people that surround me at church. letting go of unnecessary insecurities of not being liked or accepted. Im already loved and accepted by God.