Good idea for teaching kids to help others: homeless goodie bags to give out when you see people in need. love this idea . I do not feel comfortable giving money. very useful and helpful, would add a bible or bible verses.
lots of free printables and fun guy-stuff gifts (so she can keep him busy with a honey-do list) for a wedding gift: Creative "Try"als: Marriage Survival Tool Kit .This site has lots of cute "kit" gifts with fun printables.