The 'ending' gender roles I don't like, because most kids and adults fit well in their gender roles and we can mske room for the outliers. But if you wont be happy untill gender roles are ended you will never be happy.
Women have been fighting for their equality and autonomy for decades. We've made a heck of a lot progress, but there is still a long way to go. The political climate is more hostile to women today than at any point in the last 40 years.