Stephen Fry's message is so true. People that are homosexual are not trying to make others homosexual. What they want is to be accepted, just like everyone else. However, most homophobes on the other hand are trying to place their negative and unfair beliefs on others to make them also homophobic. Which is demeaning and inconsiderate.
The misconception that being PRO-something means you must be ANTI whatever would be it's opposite. But it comes from the unfortunate truth that in some instances this turns out to be the case. It doesn't HAVE to be so.