~God knows who belongs in your life and who doesn't. Trust and let go. Whoever is meant to be there, will still be there.~Psalm ESV And those who know your name put their trust in you, for you, O Lord, have not forsaken those who seek you.
read Gods word, give Him thanks, make your requests known, sit in silence, and become receptive to the still small voice that can be heard even in a loud room. But first you need to have silence to become familiar with the voice.
A tragedy or unfortunate circumstances surrounding death is painful to experience. Sometimes, it takes a painful experience to make us change our ways. Don't be stubborn or you'll have to repeat the lesson.
"God is greater than our worried hearts and knows more about us than we do ourselves." 1 John God is more compassionate and understanding toward us than we often are toward ourselves. Our conscience gets in our way, but God is superior to our heart.