8 years I went through this. Every argument he recorded secretly to ensure after he physically abused me, I looked crazy. I will never forget Lanza Martineta. I have recordings stretching back years where he screamed like a banshee! He has inherent hatred of women, this rage. Acted to conceal it. My mum saw the rage in his face. Oh but she was so ready to deal with him if he had tried anything!
Never get jealous when you see your ex with someone else, because our parents taught us to give our used toys to the less fortunate. Yup, i need to remember that. Don't worry Katie, you'll find out soon enough that you are the less fortunate now.