Someone I once loved beyond measure told me when a great sadness was heavy on my heart, "you make your own sunshine." She was absolutely right and though she no longer is the keeper of my heart, I remember her words and let the sun shine through me!
Funny but the truth. Some people should remember this when the first thing out of their mouth is, "That isn't racist." How would you know if you've never experienced it? Maybe you were taught it isn't but actually it is.