Life is most often about making others happy. I believe messages like this are part of the self-centered mentality that seems pervasive. Some of my happiest moments have been when I've worked selflessly to make my loved ones happy.
1 X Peace - Unknown Black and White Magnet: "Peace. It does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart." - Unknown Measures x Full magnetic back.
I think we all know this, instinctively lol longer he looks into your eyes the more he is interested in you. If he can't look into your eyes long enough, there is a great chance that he just wants to conquer you. After that, he will leave you.