Exactly...until you've lived this life, you have no clue what an abused person is dealing with and therefore no right to judge their decision to stay. Put the onus on the abuser, not the abused. NO ONE deserves this type of treatment. Whether they stay or leave is irrelevant.
Henry Rollins comments on The Steubenville Rape Verdict... "Put women’s studies in high school the curriculum from war heroes to politicians, writers, speakers, activists, revolutionaries and let young people understand that women have been kicking ass in high threat conditions for ages and they are worthy of respect. Total sex ed in school. Learn how it all works. Learn what the definition of statutory rape is and that it is rape, that date rape is rape, that rape is rape."