Babamukuru doesn't want Tambu to go to the mission because he says the whites will change her. Maiguru speaks up and says, "if she is decent, then this covenant should not change her." Tambu ends up going to sacred heart.
Because in every relationship there comes a point when the damage is too much and no matter how good it once was the memories can't sustain you. You have to save yourself knowing all the while it hurls like hell, because you can't keep giving someone ever
Like high school bullies of days past, Workplace Bullies use intimidation, public humiliation, and insults to manipulate those around them. But unlike high school, you don’t have to put up with them for the sake of looking cool.