I wasn't looking for love at all. In fact, I was reluctant to the fact of being with someone and especially falling in love with that person. Love will find you when you least expect it. It will find you when you least want it.
Givers have to set limits. Children begin life as takers. Adults give, and set limits to respect their needs and the child's. Children will learn to be givers as they grow, from the adults that give to them.