if you can't be kind, be quiet. If only people remember that in the "HEAT" of the moment. When we were young, we were told just about the same thing. "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all"
We lived close to Boston control on A friend of ours lives in Belgium but was traveling when the attack happened this week. He come home to what he described as 'a different country'. This quote made me think of our common understanding now.