It is so sad to watch. And trying to talk to this person about it, is like talking to a brick wall. if his STEPmom, isn't his MOM. than your HUSBAND isn't his dad either. BE NICE. It will do you some good. OH, and his name is DAD.
Dear Bio-Mom, As long as the children are well taken care of and happy, it is absolutely NONE of your business what happens in our home! but of course she ALWAYS has to know by asking her daughter questions. Get a life!