before you say yes, get him angry. see him scared, see him wanting, see him sick. stress changes a person. find out if he drinks and if he does get him drunk- you'll learn more about his sober thoughts. discover his addictions.
An occassional praise or quip is one thing, but putting your relationship drama all over FB for the world to see is a sure sign that there is a HUGE problem. And, if the ONLY thing you EVER post is drama. well, it& time to reevaluate.