Sometimes you just outgrow certain people. Don't try to fix or repair it, just accept it and move on. Fucking Move on and leave me alone please! I'm happy with what I have in my life now please leave me be and let me be happy!
The problem I find is, that the N is so very clever in putting their best face forward, that often upon hearing about my limited contact, not understanding the idea, I will hear: I don't understand how you could feel this way. People who have NEVER encountered a Narcissist nor dealt with one, won't truly understand the pain caused.