I think it all started when I stopped liking him. I still loved him, but, I didn't like him anymore. U knew my mind was preparing my heart for that moment - the one I would say 'I'm done' and really meant it.
Narcissists have secret lives. They lie effortlessly. They are two faced–appearing with a perfect public image that most people believe. In the shadows, when no one is looking, they do tremendous damage to family members, including their children.
This is so true when they notice that you can see right through them they are up and gone but as they are leaving they are still accusing you of being the one to cause the problem. All the while they know you seen right through them.