The strongest actions for a woman is to love herself, be herself and shine amongst those who never believed she could. - unknown thats for all of you who never believed in me you have something really big coming at you!
For my husband a survivor of domestic violence . It was hard breaking down those walls, trust again. The abused are traumatized and it is a recovery process! I love you and God knows You deserve peace!
Amen "controllers, abusers and manipulative people don't question themselves. they don't ask themselves if the problem is them. they always say the problem is SOMEONE else" - so true for this narcissist who puts people on back burners!
After someone hurts you, you're not the same anymore. Life is a constant flow of changing circumstances. Some good, some bad. Each experience molds you. Use these experiences to develop yourself into the loving person you are and will continue to be.
Forgiving someone is easier than being able to trust them again. True forgiveness is to forget so forgiving and not trusting isn't really forgiving. I'm not preaching, just stating the truth. I'm well aware of the 'trusting again' feeling.