A chocolate fountain is a great treat for the children....keeping in mind the theme, put out some pink napkins, add some theme'd food on toothpicks...waffer, and also some fruit. Make sure the chocolate fountain is always supervised
Little pink finger lamingtons are easy to make....cut up sponges into finger sizes, dip into raspberry jelly (with a little water) then roll in coconut. Add some little flags to decorate and there you have it.
Having a range of lollies suitable for under 3's...might pay to have lids so the kiddies can't go in and empty the whole lot before the end of the day. These were just cheap 1,2 and 3dollar jars from the shop