Imagine how much better off the world would be if we understood this: The biggest communication problem is we do not listen to understand. We listen to reply. Active listening is the most important part of active communication.
Pull, flip, twist, push, put that under that and this piece goes here and that fits there and this part sticks out but that looks weird and it won't fit in there and now I know why it's called a messy bun. This is a mess.<<So true :( XDXDXD