No one is perfect, folks. Good grief, I'm the most flawed person imaginable, however knowing that I am fearfully and wonderfully made helps me to fall in love with myself more everyday. It is only when we love ourselves that we can truly love others.
There's two things I judge harshly on. The inability for one to admit when they are wrong, and lack of courage to say I'm sorry. That tells me all I need to know. Because we are all wrong at some point. But not all of us are sorry.
What it comes down to is your actions in the end. As the saying goes actions speak louder than words. We can make careful plans if needed to to end relationships we do not wish to stay in. Start making plans for the life you want.