I looked in the mirror and realized. wow, after all those hurts, scars, and trials, I really made it through. I did it. I survived that which was supposed to kill me. So a straightened my crown and walked away like a boss.
What it comes down to is your actions in the end. As the saying goes actions speak louder than words. We can make careful plans if needed to to end relationships we do not wish to stay in. Start making plans for the life you want.