I think every woman needs to learn to not need anyone and to always always be able to hold herself up alone. Nothing wrong with love of being with a man, just learn to keep your independence! Needing and wanting a man in your life is different.
And don't forget that guys deserve a girl who is willing to tell the world "He's my one and only. He is handsome/adorable/sweet and he's mine." Plus don't forget that guys deserve that kind of guys too. And girls deserve that kind of girls too.