The carnage from a narcissist's aftermath seems infinite. The vast amount of verbal, mental, emotional, and often times physical abuse as well, leaves a path of destruction that's like an equivalent to a tsunami and an F5 tornado combined.
Ex husband used to project on me his narc ways and tell me I was a narc because I would stop talking. Most of the time it was because I was too upset and hurt, and because he would say such disgusting abusive things to me i just wanted it to stop. I would have to resort to locking myself in a room in an attempt to stop the physical and verbal abuse, or flee the house altogether.