"The beginning of love is to let the one we love be perfectly themselves, not twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them." - Thomas Merton, No Man is an Island
(battery operated) candles with rose petals for ceremony. I think this is how I want the aisle to look. Between the family we might have enough battery operated candles to do the aisle, or at least a good portion of it. No aisle runner.