"Someday everything will make perfect sense. So for now, laugh at the confusion, smile through the tears, and keep reminding yourself that everything happens for a reason." Even if someday it doesn't make perfect sense, it happened for a reason.
This is the truth, not "God doesn't give us more than we can handle." Because while the sentiment is true, the STATEMENT is false, implying that WE can "handle" stuff. Instead, God helps us handle what we are given. I like this so much.