Do not waste time bothering whether you 'love' you neighbor; act as if you did. As soon as we do this, we find one of the greatest secrets. When you are behaving as if you loved someone, you will presently come to love him - C.S Lewis
You are not your body. You are not your name- and you are not your hands. These are all things that we have. You are a soul, a spiritual being, living in a physical body, and been gifted with an intellect.
Quote about Prayer by C.S. Lewis: "I pray because I can't help myself. I pray because I'm helpless. I pray because the need flows out of me all the time, waking and sleeping. It does not change God, it changes me.