"...To do the best we can and then to choose to be happy about our circumstances, whatever they may be, can bring peace and contentment. We can't direct the wind, but we can adjust the sails. For maximum happiness, peace, and contentment, may we choose a positive attitude.”
Take this into consideration, Mike. You don't want to take responsibility for anything you've done to the family that has been there for you since day 1. I guess the grass isn't as green on the other side as you thought, especially when you're talking about it in public settings, like the bar.