Forgiving someone doesn’t mean that their behavior was OK. What it does mean is that we’re ready to move on. To release the heavy weight. To shape our own life, on our terms, without any unnecessary burdens.
When you're always expecting things from people, you are bound to be disappointed. That's a great way to set yourself up for failure. The best way to live is not to expect anything. Then you can never be let down. That's a great way to live your life. Then there are only surprises. Oh yeah, and don't be afraid of losing people as well.