If for some reason my anchor tattoo meaning is ruined, here's an idea: Anchors are strong and meant to be tough, but add a floral arrangement and you have what can represent a strong woman. Perhaps, perhaps.
Romantic-looking Castillo de Butròn in Gatika, Basque Country, Spain. Altho the original castle dates to the Middle Ages, the current building is late century. I love the look, but it seems to have been an unfortunate folly.