Include a blank recipe card in everyone's invite asking them to fill out their favorite recipe for the new bride and bring it with them to the shower. Then provide a recipe box so the guests can file their cards.
How to make tiny pom poms with a fork. Wrap yarn around fork until fat, then cut. Take a small piece of yarn and tie entire bunch together so that the knot fits through the prongs of the fork. Take off of fork and cut all the loops.