When in doubt, ask; if you're in doubt, it probably means you don't know the mom to be well enough to be planning the baby shower in the first place.
rustic jars would make a pretty addition to your table decorations. Place near the cake or present table and add candles or small posies of flowers. The jars are new and have the letters BABY stencilled
SOPHIA BOUGHT WHITE AND PINK PLATES AND THEN HAS PLASTIC UTENSILS