Projection. They'll accuse others of cheating, being argumentative, uncooperative, lying, vengeful, jealous, vindictive, etc. Listen closely. They are projecting. Which is telling you what they are actually doing. Seems absurd until you've lived it.
You!!! Labeling again and again and again...I refuse to let you or anyone else get to me and I am living my life my way..I know who I am and I do not need your approval or consent...to bad your not happy with me standing up for myself..get over it!!!