......whatever the hell 'feminine' means.... Why shouldn't he show different aspects of himself? Just let them be authentic and accept them for who they are and not what they are socially constructed to be.
If you have trouble visualizing, just feel what you want. Feeling is equally powerful. Whether you feel it, or imagine it in pictures, both are creating. You will know which one works best for you, by how you feel. Feeling good is the key to creation.
I need feminism because..."Who hired a stripper?" --- This really sucks. I am so angry for her. It is way too common for women to be compared to strippers or prostitutes, no matter what profession, as if that's all women are good for.