My father was not part of my life at all. Even though this quote is about missing a father after their death- it can relate to me in some ways- No one truly understands how hard it is to not have a dad until you experience it. I believe a father is a vital part of a child's life as well. Mom and Dad do not necessarily need to be married to each other to still be a part of the child's life...
Projection. They'll accuse others of cheating, being argumentative, uncooperative, lying, vengeful, jealous, vindictive, etc. Listen closely. They are projecting. Which is telling you what they are actually doing. Seems absurd until you've lived it.
How to tell if you’re being used (and what to do about it)
We all have them - high maintenance friends, always in the throws of some kind of trauma that draw you in so you become involved, giving them help and support. You will always help people out if you can, that's the sort of person you are. But they will always let you. They don't feel bad if you go the extra mile for them, change plans for them, take, fetch and carry for them. They take advantage of your kind nature. Why is that, and what can you do to protect yourself? Take a read
When a #relationship is over, leave. Don't continue watering a dead flower.
Sometimes the heart just needs to continue out of habit in order to spare itself excruciating pain.. My pain is like an elephant pinning me down, I can't breathe and every organ feels like it's starved of oxygen.. The brain is so befuddled and obsessed that you can't do the menial of tasks ..this is when death seems more favourable..
my stomach churns as i read this. my mother and ex friend did many of these things to me all the time. now i'm beginning to suspect that yet another one of my friends is a narc... what am i? a narc magnet? why can't i have people who will just accept me as i am and be a real friend to me?