A narcissist paints a picture of themselves as being the victim or innocent in all aspects. They will be offended by the truth. But what is done in the dark will come to light. Time has a way of showing people true colors.
It takes a REAL person to say "You know what - I AM going to have a relationship fast and HEAL." I would love to show you how to heal after Narcissistic Abuse so the next relationship is NOT with a narcissist and will never be again.
The symptoms of abuse are there, and the woman usually sees them: the escalating frequency of put-downs. Early generosity turning more and more to selfishness. Verbal explosions when he is irritated or when he doesn’t get his way. Her grievances.
There are many things that are excruciatingly difficult when suffering from narcissistic abuse. One of them commonly being that people close to you seem to have no understanding of the soul rape that you are going through. Often, adding insult to injury, people close to you might believe that you are the person who is disturbed and not well, and even making stuff up … they just don't understand the dynamics in a narcissistic relationship.I do, and many thousands of other Thriver understand…