Not getting what you want? Change your ways and show the real worth of your words. Nobody falls for lies again n again. The best apology is to do better. The best way to prove yourself is through actions, not words, especially when it's the same words that put another person in a terrible spot.
You have a busy life, juggling work, home, friendships, relationships, kids, and you're so used to being all things to all people you've forgotten who you really are anymore. Learning about yourself - what you need, want and like, what really makes you tick is the first vital step to increased happiness, reduced stress, contentment and clarity. After all, if you don't know what your needs are, how can they possible be met?