Dating or Hunting? Trying to find love with the wrong attitude? Finding #love can be difficult. It's hard to separate the genuine people from the phonies. What you need to do at first is look at what method you are using. #Dating is process designed to weed out people that have little to nothing to offer in the way of friendship and perhaps sharing a life with you. If you are #hunting for a partner you goal maybe to take that person and do as you wish to make them conform to your standards.