One of the biggest things about anti-feminist females that really bothers me is when they say "I'm not a feminist because I don't need feminism!" Well you know what buttercup that's fucking fantastic, I'm happy that YOU don't PERSONALLY NEED feminism, but women aren't feminists just for ourselves, we're feminists for EVERYONE. Just because I'm not a Middle Eastern woman having acid thrown on her face for rejecting a marriage proposal doesn't mean I'm not a feminist FOR THAT WOMAN, etc.
As far as my son goes just because you say I'm not his mother doesn't change the fact that I am and had I not raised him I promise you he would not have been worth much. Remember the one you keep claiming did such a good job raising "his son" refused to be in his life if it didn't suit him & he is on his third wife...I really hope you're right and he turns out just like his wonderful biological father. You deserve nothing less sweetheart.