Certain people use this victim card entirely too much. Admittedly, you are good at playing the role. Just a matter of time before Karma catches up with you. And NO you are not the victim. You deserve zero respect.
People always ask ... But what does that mean? "vibrate Higher"? It means to think positive thoughts and in turn FEEL positive emotions. When we grow into a Universal Spiritual Perspective, we can see that everything is happening for the expansion of our soul! Whether it looks bad or good, it is all happening FOR us and not to us! When we transform our "victim" mentality into "empowerment" we see that the universe and us are ONE!