This is just a growing pain. Not a personal attack; one way or the other. Ppl generally don't grow at the same rate. But it's important to understand the difference between LOVE & a growing pain. A blessing or a lesson.
Quote on abuse: Survivors of any and all abuse become very good at anticipating moods of others, looks, actions, all of it in an effort to survive. Believing that if we can be agreeable, be compliant and loving, do things how they want, that we will be safe. This becomes our way of live." - Darlene Ouimet. www.HealthyPlace.com
Narcissistic Relationships You work harder than your partner to fix the problems. You keep asking “is it me or them?” You hope things will magically get better at some point in the future. You suppress your personality to avoid conflicts. You are unhappy but your partner is just fine. Problems are never resolved, and nothing is ever gained.