No matter what, we cannot save someone. They have to be willing to do the work themselves. If you have ever tried to rehabilitate a drug addict, or get a smoker to quit you will know exactly what I mean. Some people do actually get addicted to their traumas and issues and worse, their coping mechanisms. It's sometimes all they know. They have to be willing to do the deep internal work. But boy have I seen some amazing transformations happen when people make that decision. All credit to them.