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from Jane Travis - Self Care for People Pleasers

When saying no to people isn’t enough

When saying no to people, it's not the initial 'no, thank you' that's hard - actually, that's pretty easy. It's their attempts at changing your mind by any means possible, whether that's to bully you, to be passive aggressive, to be rude, to be disrespectful or to be forceful that's difficult. So how do you deal with that? Take a look

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I don't mean to be rude but it wasn't that difficult to get.. Sorry if that offends anybody in this 2016 mindset

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It's proof of weakness, insecurity, and no class. There is never a good reason to be rude. Ever. Take the high ride to show the distance between your level of class and their lack thereof. And let's not forget, it makes even an attractive person ugly.

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CHALLENGE EFFING ACCEPTED!! this will be my pick up line.... Then apologise immensely afterwards hahaha....see if he can handle being Loki'd hahaa

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from Skreened

I Don't Mean to Be Rude, But I'm About to Be | T-Shirt

I Don't Mean to Be Rude, But I'm About to Be | I don't mean to be rude, but I'm about to be. Being rude just comes naturally sometimes, and some people just bring out the worst on you. This bold tee is fun and sassy. Sorry not sorry. #Skreened

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Set an example. Treat everyone with kindness and respect, even those who are rude to you – not because they are nice, but because you are. -- via: http://www.marcandangel.com/2013/11/07/50-happiness-quotes-to-change-the-way-you-think/

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