He's got your back no, no, my dear she has it as fierce as he looks, she'll rip anyone apart who messes with those she loves! Remember that. Females protect in most species. You ever see a mother protect her cubs-
Don't go elsewhere with your issues, trust in one person alone; Go through everything with them and trust in them! They are to be there for you through everything, no matter what. And you should be there for them no matter what.