I will always be a free spirit, and honestly I think it frightens people who are so caught up in the construct of society. Not all "rules, labeling and regulations" are good for the spirit, especially a free one.
This is why I hate society. They say things to you that can hurt but if or when you change it society finds a way to make it back fire. So screw society we have one life to live and in my opinion I'd rather live it my way.