Beware of the man who is content when his needs are met and yours are not.
One of the biggest signs and traits of narcissism is Hoovering. This technique usually appears after months, even years of no contact. Narcissists will try every trick in the book to get you back into the codependent cycle.
This has been a reoccurring thought for me as of late. Although, the Narcissist is not an ex I can still certainly relate. I figured them out. I wanted to know more to justify my instincts about them. But, I forgot about me. I forgot about my loved ones. And often, I was brought back to that place of anger, bitterness, disbelief and hatred. Realizing my energy was still focused on them. They will never change. No matter how much you research about them. They do not deserve any more…