People don't naturally think outside the box. Big picture is God's picture. It takes time to turn a big ship around. I can not wait to watch Him begin to work! It is not at all what I thought it might be which is even more awesome. Love comes in all different forms. He had to show me to think different first.
It's true that many mistakes are made by rushing this life. Like the good ship's captain, steady as she goes, has a lot going for it and will present the opportunities you deserve. I'm doing this right now and it feels good taking my own advice!