Respectful of all, but selective. There are different levels of "liking" and where someone falls on this scale, is one's own business. I would prefer to be liked by people who love me,(not always possible) than to be liked by someone whose existence has no meaning to me. Quite frankly though, the only person who's opinion really matters on how likable I am, is me. So, having said that; 'I' really like people who feel the same.
It takes a long time to get over betrayal. Be kind to yourself. It's not easy but it can be done, and youre going to have set backs.. Just remember that the real TRUTH is not what he tells anyone. The truth for him is a whole bunch of lies he spews to serve his own Narc agenda… Don't feel replaced, remember, he will do this to everyone.. No one is special to him.. But you are special to GOD and to me.. :) by proteamundi
...and they are loyal to you, never gossiping about or exploiting your sensitivities when you, or they, are feeling low (or anytime)... Friends have your back and you have theirs whether directly or indirectly. When you have found this kind of trust, you are blessed (esp by knowing enough to not settle for less which some learn the hard way). There is no substitute for this feeling. Trust...there's nothing worth more.<3
I don't do fakeness. You may not like what I say but you'll always know where you stand with me. If my actions tell you that I like you then I'm not acting. I'm a genuine person. It hasn’t always been that way but people learn and they grow. I don't understand being nice to someone's face and then shit talking them behind their back. I don't understand not being upfront and forthcoming about your feelings of others. I don't understand people's words and actions not matching...