Wow. You think someone cares, and then you realize what a mean, selfish, backstabbing person they are. And apparently hypocritical......all the times I was there for her and then she's going to turn around and #1 be nasty and cruel about being there for me and #2 be a hypocrite since I gave WAY more in the friendship than she did. Amazing.
So so true..Everything a mother does or says has to be for the children you can't let your selfish emotions cloud the children's lives and happiness it doesn't work that way..no matter how hurt you may be the kids ALWAYS have to be the priority and at the forefront of your mind before any decisions are taken you have to look at their happiness..
How can you possibly say no? You know and understand that your friend has been stressed out and needs cheering up, and you'd really like to help them as you hate seeing people sad. And if you don't go just so you can relax, does that mean you're selfish? How can you choose what to do? Take a read