How can you possibly say no? You know and understand that your friend has been stressed out and needs cheering up, and you'd really like to help them as you hate seeing people sad. And if you don't go just so you can relax, does that mean you're selfish? How can you choose what to do? Take a read
Yep, even after all the bad things you've gossiped about me and my family, you ignored my son and walked right past him in a restaurant and didn't speak while your husband did. You blocked both my kids on FB like a teenager, even tho they've done nothing to you and you've involved your children in this mess. You intentionally excluded me from the funerals of women I physically helped care fop many years. But I'm the mean one?